F.A.Q

 

DO YOU OFFER CAM OR SKYPE SESSIONS?

No. I prefer to only session face to face. In addition to my POV clips and fan site you can sometimes book your own custom clip with instructional elements to suit.  I do also offer email/online domination, which is ideal for those who wish to be set submissive tasks or line-writing detentions, but who cannot travel to see me in London. Email me for details about this.

 

HOW HARD DO YOU SPANK?

Take note, this is the kind of question that will immediately mark you out as a time-waster. True, I am well-known to be a 'hard' spanker, but given the subjective nature of pain tolerance and multiple environmental variables, "how hard" is, frankly, an unanswerable question.

Put another way: one person's "medium" spanking is another's "severe".

All you need to worry about is whether I can spank effectively and appropriately. (Yes)

 

DO YOU SEE TOTAL NEWBIES?

Experience is absolutely no issue as a rule, but as I have less time to vet these days I am more likely to only see people who have had at least one recent experience. I ask people to give me information about their prior experiences to get a rounded picture of where their desires stem from, but do not be shy about approaching me if you've never been spanked by a strict lady before; as you'll see from my reviews, I am very capable of tailoring levels of both physical and mental experience to each individual on the day they see me. I am also safe, observant, and accurate enough to ensure that if you don't want marks, then you won't have marks. 

This doesn't mean that you won't have your limits explored and pushed, but it is possible to be sensually, safely sadistic, believe me!  (Obviously a cold-caning at judicial will leave marks, that should hopefully go without saying.)

 

WILL YOU SPANK ME TO TEARS?

Again, another "timewaster" flag will go up if you write this. If you acknowledge that you would like that to happen in an ideal fantasy situation, but you are aware of the highly complex and subjective nature of crying, then I may consider the rest of your email. Otherwise I'm afraid I get to that line, scan the rest, and then delete. I certainly have spanked many to tears, but many factors were at play each time, and it isn't something I see as being the ultimate goal of a spanking punishment.

 

CAN I PLEASURE YOU WITH MY TONGUE/MOUTH? I'M REALLY GOOD.

No. And if you try, you'll be thrown out. Facesitting sessions, if they are offered, are always covered.

 

DO YOU OFFER RELIEF?
Sessions can certainly be quite erotically charged for many, and whilst I do not "lend a hand" myself I sometimes coerce my playthings to masturbate in front of me as a tool to further their submission or humiliation. (Sometimes this might not be as fun as it sounds...) 

 

CAN I BE YOUR PERSONAL SLAVE?

I am not looking for personal slaves.

 

DO YOU SELL WORN PANTIES/STOCKINGS?

Absolutely! Drop me an email to request this - items can be sent washed or not per your preference, and multiple styles are available.

 

CAN I CALL YOU TO DISCUSS MY IDEAS FOR A SESSION?

I only arrange things via email, and only use my phone to be contacted in case of problems on the day of a session. My number is not listed on the site for this reason, and calls/text messages outwith the above will be ignored.

 

I CAN’T AFFORD TO SEE YOU - CAN I DO CLEANING/GARDENING/WEB WORK/MASSAGE IN RETURN FOR A SESSION?

In short… No. Save up for what will be a truly special treat. Remember that "cheap" and "good value" are often very different beasts.

 

ARE YOU DISCREET?

Privacy and discretion is just as important for me as it is for you. The only times I will ever resort to sharing an email address/ name is in the case of an unsafe/dishonest/abusive timewaster, and even then that is only to warn other professional ladies.

The venues I hire are safe places, run by scene-folk, and you will invariably not see another person except for myself while you are there.

 

I’M WORRIED ABOUT HYGIENE - ARE YOUR IMPLEMENTS CLEAN?

I am fastidious about cleaning my own implements between uses, as it is a pet hate of mine to see unsafe or dirty items being used on multiple people. I use hospital-grade cleanser, as well as disinfectant, and hand-sanitiser/gloves as necessary. If skin is broken during a punishment, I will assess and treat the graze/cut appropriately. I am first aid qualified and well aware of infection control requirements, so I know that simply wiping a soiled implement with an antibac wipe won't actually clean it properly.

Implements found in the venues are checked prior to me using them, and if I am unsure, I won’t use them.  You are welcome to bring your personal implements for me to use on you.

I appreciate that hard canings can sometimes graze or bring up a "weak spot", especially on frequent players. If you are aware that your skin is damaged or weak, please let me know in advance or bring hydrocolloid/blister dressings to prevent blood transfer and protect people's health. I prefer to avoid cutting the skin when caning, so those seeking pure quantity and damage like this in their punishment should look elsewhere.  

I will curtail a punishment early if it seems that your skin is becoming especially damaged or may be prone to breaking. Get your skin healthier and we can both enjoy the punishment even more!

I very much recommend using Aloe Vera Gel (available from Chemists and Holland & Barrett) to all my spanking gents as a non-fragranced daily moisturiser that really improves your skin health. It also looks unremarkable in the bathroom as it is commonly used for sunburn or first aid burn treatment.

 

WILL YOU KNOCK ME OUT/CHOKE ME TO UNCONSCIOUSNESS/CASTRATE/PERMANENTLY SCAR ME? 

No. For me, a "safe & sane" BDSM play environment does not include interrupting blood flow to the brain, or permanently injuring/maiming someone.

 

 

I SAW THAT YOU USED TO SWITCH A LONG TIME AGO. WILL YOU DO THAT FOR ME?

Absolutely not.